Schein On

A FIIRM Approach to Divorce: Nikki Tucker

Episode 80 of the Schein On Podcast spotlights Nikki Tucker, a personal financial strategist and certified divorce financial analyst. Nikki shares her expertise on finance management pre- and post-divorce, emphasizing the importance of prenups, staying organized, and having open financial discussions in relationships. The show also delves into how public figures handle relationship scrutiny, the impact of social media on divorce settlements, and offers listener advice on navigating extended separations. Tune in for a blend of practical financial advice and engaging conversations on trending topics.More on Nikki at https://thefiirmapproach.com/Topics01:30 Halloween Highlights and Pop Culture03:08 Daylight Saving Time Debate04:29 Divorce and TikTok07:34 Halloween Candy Controversy10:41 Jessica Simpson's Marriage Rumors12:37 Ask Evan: Legal Separation vs. Divorce15:46 Interview with Nikki Tucker: Marriage and Money20:05 Prenup Discussions: Protecting Each Other22:07 Financial Transparency in Marriage22:46 Common Financial Mistakes During Divorce25:55 Rebuilding Financial Confidence Post-Divorce28:24 Rewarding Financial Milestones30:38 Nikki's Personal Philosophy and Advice35:05 Famous Quotes and Financial Wisdom40:28 Wrapping Up: Final Thoughts and Contact Info

’A Deeper Wellness’ Author Dr. Monica Vermani

A thought-provoking discussion on marriage, divorce, and mental health with Dr. Monica Vermani, a Toronto-based clinical psychologist and author of 'A Deeper Wellness.' Evan and Dr. Vermani delve into the complexities of emotional well-being during life transitions such as divorce. The episode features insightful conversation on topics ranging from the importance of tuning into one's authentic truth amidst external noise, to practical advice for those contemplating a move amidst a potential divorce. The episode also brings thoughtful commentary on the stigma surrounding mental health and the importance of resilience and self-compassion. Topics03:00 Celebrity Divorce: Jeremy Allen White06:52 Political Differences Leading to Divorce09:47 Ask Evan: Moving and Divorce12:17 Interview with Dr. Monica Vermani37:02 Embracing Uncertainty and Building Confidence37:45 Learning from Patients and Personal Growth38:55 The Importance of Self-Care for Therapists41:29 The Journey of Writing 'A Deeper Wellness'42:54 Creating Accessible Mental Health Resources49:10 The Role of Mentors and Personal Development52:07 The Impact of Vulnerability and Resilience59:22 Addressing Mental Health Stigmas and Narratives01:04:59 Navigating Divorce and Its Emotional Impact01:09:28 Conclusion and Resources for Mental Wellness

Divorce Financial Strategist Rhonda Noordyk

The guest is Rhonda Noordyk, a renowned divorce financial strategist and host of the podcast 'Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women.' Evan and Rhonda discuss the true meaning of disruption in divorce, emphasizing challenging the status quo for better outcomes. Rhonda shares her journey from the financial industry to specializing in helping women navigate the financial complexities of divorce. The episode covers crucial topics like the emotional and strategic aspects of divorce, the significance of understanding money stories from childhood, and practical advice on financial stability during the divorce process.Topics01:54 July 4th Weekend Plans03:20 The Role of a Divorce Lawyer06:11 Client-Lawyer Relationship Dynamics09:34 Gray Divorce Insights12:35 Ask Evan: Legal Grounds for Divorce14:33 Interview with Rhonda Noordyk24:26 Strategic Thinking in Divorce25:14 Misconceptions About Financial Stability27:19 Building Financial Confidence28:27 Handling Emotional Decisions32:57 Changes Needed in Divorce Industry35:19 The Women's Financial Wellness Center38:26 Future Vision and Impact42:09 Lessons Learned from Clients44:59 Fun Segment: They Said It50:54 Conclusion and Resources

Author & ’Whole 30’ Co-Founder Melissa Urban

Evan delves into intimate and profound discussions with Melissa Urban, the co-founder and CEO of Whole30, and a six-time New York Times bestselling author. The conversation covers a wide range of topics including Melissa's personal journey through divorce, drug addiction recovery, the growth of Whole30, and her new book, 'The Book of Boundaries.' They also discuss current events such as a Missouri law related to divorce during pregnancy, quick divorces post-wedding, and the possibilities of mediation and collaborative divorce. The episode ends with practical advice from Melissa on setting boundaries in various life scenarios. This episode is packed with profound insights and real-life experiences on life, relationships, and personal growth. More on Melissa at https://www.melissau.com/Topics:01:06 Melissa Urban's Journey: From Addiction to Whole3002:17 Discussing Divorce Laws and Social Etiquette08:21 Ask Evan: Mediation and Collaborative Divorce11:34 Melissa Urban on Personal Growth and Boundaries27:24 Navigating Emotional Responses in Divorce27:58 The Book of Boundaries: Concept and Format30:23 Nature Church: Finding Peace in the Mountains32:17 Whole30: Personalized Health and Wellness33:33 Life Advice and Personal Legacy38:00 They Said It: Boundary Setting Scenarios48:07 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Navigating Divorce and Addiction with Recovery Coach Lisa Smith

The guest is Lisa Smith, author of 'Girl Walks Out of a Bar' and a renowned recovery coach and former attorney. Lisa shares her personal journey through high-functioning addiction and her path to recovery, offering profound insights and practical advice. The episode concludes with a fun rock-and-roll-themed segment involving memorable quotes from famous songs. This week's docket includes topics ranging from American celebrity culture to NFL star Darren Waller's emotional song. Lisa's candid conversation about her struggles and recovery, along with her passion for rock music, makes this episode both inspiring and enlightening.Find Lisa at https://lisasmithadvisory.com/On IG: @girlwalksoutTopics:00:42 Guest Introduction: Lisa Smith02:10 Celebrity Gossip: 'Bennifer'07:48 Darren Waller's split -- and song10:55 Divorce Registry Discussion14:24 Ask Evan: Marital Property16:09 Interview with Lisa Smith29:24 Normalizing Non-Drinking at Events30:09 Lisa's Pivotal Recovery Moment32:17 The Reward of Sharing Her Story33:28 Music and Recovery39:51 Navigating Social Situations Without Alcohol43:01 Podcast Highlights and Rock Star Guests44:41 Rock and Roll Quotes Game52:34 Final Thoughts and Farewell

Author & Psychotherapist Dr. Judy Ho

In the 75th episode of the Schein On podcast, Evan invites Dr. Judy Ho, a triple board-certified and licensed clinical and forensic neuropsychologist, professor, podcast host, and author, to explore the complex realms of attachment, self-sabotage, and the pursuit of happiness. Dr. Ho shares insights from her books 'The New Rules of Attachment' and 'Stop Self Sabotage,' discussing how understanding our attachment styles can significantly improve personal and professional relationships, mental health, and overall life satisfaction. The episode covers the impact of childhood experiences on adult attachment styles, the dynamics of healing and personal growth, and the role of creativity and authenticity in achieving success. In addition to Dr. Ho's expertise, the podcast also dives into various topics such as the nuances of navigating friendships during divorce and the psychological effects of social media consumption. It's a comprehensive and enlightening discussion on improving one's life by fostering better relationships, self-awareness, and resilience against self-sabotage.More on Dr. Ho at drjudyho.comTopics02:49 Navigating Divorce: Advice, Support, and Personal Experiences15:41 Discovering Your Attachment Style with Dr. Judy Ho30:29 Puzzle Analogies and Parenting Insights31:24 Exploring Attachment Styles and Mental Health32:13 Attachment Styles in Relationships and Communication34:26 Navigating the Complex World of Social Media39:48 Rethinking New Year's Resolutions41:26 The Journey of Writing Books and Parenting43:25 Expert Witness Work and Courtroom Dynamics47:51 Mentorship, Mistakes, and Learning52:03 They Said It: Reflecting on Mental Health Quotes

’Been There Got Out’ Authors Lisa Johnson & Chris Barry

Evan welcomes Lisa Johnson and Chris Barry, co-founders of 'Been There Got Out,' and acclaimed authors of the must-read book on navigating toxic relationships and high-conflict divorces. Their conversation delves deep into the indicators of toxic relationships, emphasizing the often-hidden nature of emotional and financial abuse. Lisa shares her personal story of living in an abusive relationship for two decades, highlighting the difficulty in recognizing and admitting to being in such a situation. Both Lisa and Chris discuss the concept of coercive control, explaining its detrimental impact on relationship dynamics and emphasizing the importance of conflict in healthy interactions. The discussion also covers the strategies for handling high-conflict co-parenting situations, underscoring the necessity of detailed and enforceable parenting plans to mitigate post-divorce manipulation. Finally, they touch upon the pervasive issue of legal abuse in the court system and share insights into navigating such challenges, including the empowerment found in self-representation and the importance of focusing on recovery and support.More at https://beentheregotout.com/Topics:02:09 Drake's Generosity: Paying for a Fan's Divorce04:07 Polyamory and Young Divorces06:50 High-Impact Couples Therapy: A 16-Hour Fix?11:19 Ask Evan: Navigating Finances in Divorce13:32 High Conflict Divorce Coaching with Lisa Johnson and Chris Barry25:16 Understanding and Combating Legal Abuse31:45 Navigating Divorce with Legal and Emotional Support32:20 The Strategy of Building a Paper Trail in Divorce33:46 The Journey to Self-Representation and Victory34:37 The Challenges and Strategies of Going Pro Se37:26 Supporting Friends in Toxic Relationships41:06 Empowering Survivors Through Shared Experiences44:34 Advice for Navigating High-Conflict Divorces49:26 Reflecting on Personal Growth and Professional Evolution53:54 Engaging with the Community: They Said It Segment

’Our Son’ Filmmaker Peter Nickowitz

'Our Son' filmmaker Peter Nickowitz joins the show to talk about the film's themes of family dynamics, relationships, power struggles, love, intimacy, and passion. The film is groundbreaking in addressing a child-custody struggle for a same-sex couple.Watch 'Our Son' on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/amzn1.dv.gti.35fc6343-49f9-4b0b-baaf-549559b93a89?autoplay=0&ref_=atv_cf_strg_wb

Dr. Luana Marques: Speaker, Author, Scientist, Innovator.

Dr. Luana Marques is a global speaker, author, scientist and innovator. She is an associate professor at Harvard Medical School and a former president of the Anxiety and Depression Association of America.More at https://drluana.com/

Author & Therapist Duygu Balan

The guest is Duygu Balan, a licensed psychotherapist specializing in familial and intergenerational trauma. Duygu is the first author for Re-Write: A Trauma Workbook of Creative Writing and Recovery in Our New Normal. She is a regular contributor at Psychology Today, and has been featured on CNN, The Washington Times and MSN.More at https://www.duygubalan.com/