Schein On

Self-Discovery with Dr. Brad Reedy

In episode 87 of the Schein On Podcast, Evan dives into a profound discussion with Dr. Brad Reedy, renowned family therapist and co-founder of Evoke Therapy Programs. The episode explores the importance of understanding oneself, the transformative power of therapy, and how the hero's journey framework can reframe life's challenges, including divorce. Additionally, Evan and producer Dave discuss their personal takes on Opening Day, share insights on popular shows like 'White Lotus,' and debate the value of law firm swag. 
 
00:00 Introduction to Self-Discovery
00:08 Podcast Opening and Episode Overview
00:52 Guest Introduction: Dr. Brad Reedy
01:15 Casual Conversation: Baseball and Personal Anecdotes
05:18 Discussion on Divorce and Relationships
09:37 Parenting Post-Divorce
13:46 Overrated or Underrated Segment
18:18 White Lotus Discussion
21:42 Interview with Dr. Brad Reedy
23:20 Embracing Resistance in Therapy
24:46 Mentors and Their Impact
26:19 False Heroes and Misguided Pursuits
27:34 Modern Therapy's Shortcomings
29:42 Connecting Past Trauma to Present Issues
32:06 The True Nature of Healing
34:12 The Role of Forgiveness in Therapy
35:56 Divorce as a Catalyst for Growth
39:01 The Hero's Journey Framework
41:03 Unresolved Childhood Trauma in Breakups
44:24 The Importance of Self-Knowledge
48:07 Famous Quotes and Their Insights
58:57 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Sexuality & Relationships with Dr. David Ley

Evan leads a deep dive into the complexities of sex addiction and human sexuality with clinical psychologist and sex therapist Dr. David Ley. The conversation dispels myths, addresses misconceptions about sex addiction, and explores the nuances of intimacy, relationships, and pornography. The episode also features the lively 'Overrated or Underrated' segment and a discussion on AI's impact on child exploitation. Additionally, Dr. Ley provides professional insights on maintaining realistic expectations in relationships and discusses the potential benefits and ethical dilemmas associated with artificial intelligence in combating sexual offenses.
 
Topics
00:38 Diving into Divorce and Relationship Insights
02:00 March Madness and Bracket Strategies
04:46 Red Sox and Yankees Rivalry
06:40 The Docket: Sharing Truth After Divorce
14:07 Overrated or Underrated: Legal and Fun Topics
26:17 Interview with Dr. David Ley on Sex Addiction
30:05 The Harmful Effects of the 'Sex Addiction' Label
30:45 Sex Addiction in the Courtroom
31:31 Misconceptions About Sex Addiction Treatment
33:26 Moral Judgments and Sex Addiction
35:53 Pornography and Its Misunderstood Impact
37:07 The Role of Sex Education
39:06 Pornography in Relationships
45:09 The Myth of Porn-Induced Erectile Dysfunction
46:40 The Complexity of Human Sexuality
01:01:36 AI and Child Exploitation
01:10:17 Final Thoughts and Reflections

Navigating the Dating Jungle with Laurie Gerber

Featuring renowned life coach and relationship expert Laurie Gerber, the episode delves into handling breakups, dating post-divorce, and the importance of honesty and self-discovery. Highlights include Gerber's advice on the pitfalls of rushing into new relationships, the significance of personal growth, and practical tips for modern dating. The show also covers current events, such as celebrity divorces, and explores topics like the resurgence of vinyl records and the impact of one's career on relationships. Throughout the episode, engaging segments like 'Overrated or Underrated' and 'They Said It' add variety and depth to the conversation, making it a must-listen for anyone interested in love, relationships, and personal development.
 
Topics
00:14 Podcast Introduction and Season Overview
00:26 Discussing Divorce and Relationships
02:40 Celebrity Divorce News
06:24 TV Show Trailer Review
09:08 Impact of Careers on Relationships
13:26 Overrated or Underrated Segment
22:55 Interview with Laurie Gerber
39:01 Understanding Compatibility in Dating
39:56 Efficiently Ending a Relationship
41:27 The Six Key Compatibility Factors
45:37 Importance of Family and Political Views
50:12 Common Dating Mistakes After 50
59:46 The Role of Social Media in Dating
01:02:30 Quotes and Reflections on Love
01:10:42 Conclusion and Resources

The Evolution of Marriage Law with Prof. Alison Lefkovitz

Evan sits down with Alison Lefkowitz, professor at the New Jersey Institute of Technology and author of 'Strange Bedfellows: Marriage in the Age of Women's Liberation, Politics, and Culture in Modern America'. They discuss the historical and modern challenges of marriage laws, the shifts in gender roles, and how technology is reshaping relationships. The episode also features segments on notable cultural perspectives on relationships, as well as a fun 'Overrated or Underrated' segment covering topics from depositions to fanny packs.
 
Topics
 
00:00 Introduction to Marriage Laws and Social Safety Nets
00:58 Episode Introduction and Guest Announcement
01:10 Discussion on Marriage Law and Social Change
01:48 Weather Talk and Personal Updates
02:43 Docket Item: Divorcing Over Taylor Swift
05:07 Docket Item: Living with Post-Divorce Anger
08:58 Overrated or Underrated: Legal and Lifestyle Topics
17:44 The Fanny Pack Debate
20:48 Introducing Alison Lefkovitz
22:22 The Evolution of Marriage Laws
24:01 Technology's Impact on Modern Marriages
25:23 Masculinity, Femininity, and Legal Rulings
36:30 Pop Culture and Marriage
38:49 The Future of Marriage
44:13 They Said It: Fun Segment
50:23 Conclusion and Farewell

Love and Divorce with Dr. Galena Rhoades

An insightful conversation on the complexities of relationships and divorce featuring Dr. Galena Rhoades, a leading psychologist and research professor at the University of Denver. The episode covers a variety of topics including the science behind what keeps couples together, the importance of commitment and communication, and the controversial topic of infidelity and its recovery process. The podcast includes engaging segments like 'Overrated or Underrated' and 'They Said It,' where Evan and producer Dave delve into trending topics and quotes about relationships. Dr. Rhoades offers research-backed truths and practical advice, making this a must-listen for anyone interested in understanding the dynamics of love and divorce.
 
Topics
 
01:35 February Excitement and Super Bowl Talk
03:01 Valentine's Day Discussion
04:12 Docket Items: Divorce and Cheating
06:26 Bill Gates' Divorce Regret
12:10 Overrated or Underrated: Legal and Fun Topics
22:03 Interview with Dr. Galena Rhoades
26:27 Research on Cohabitation and Divorce
28:00 The Sliding vs. Deciding Theory
30:04 Designing the Ideal Psychological Study
31:38 Healing After Betrayal in Relationships
33:49 The Phases of Recovery from Infidelity
38:53 The Myths of Love and Relationships
41:49 Impact of Family Background on Relationships
44:14 Key Components of Thriving Relationships
47:45 Insights from 'Fighting for Your Marriage'
50:35 Analyzing Historical Relationships
52:52 They Said It: Reflections on Love and Commitment
57:40 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Navigating Financial Transitions with Jennifer Lee

Evan welcomes financial advisor and author Jennifer Lee to discuss her book, 'Squeeze the Juice'. The episode dives into the intricacies of making financial resources work efficiently towards achieving life goals, such as affording private school, vacations, or an unrestricted budget for weekend shopping. Jennifer offers insightful advice on navigating major financial transitions like divorce and death, emphasizing the importance of understanding one’s financial story and leveraging resources effectively. The segment 'Overrated or Underrated' adds a fun twist, tackling topics like drive-thru coffee shops and DIY legal forms. Jennifer also shares her philosophy on money management, the importance of professional financial advice, and integrating financial planning with personal life goals.
 
Topics
 
01:07 Buzz Around Season 5 and Meredith Goldstein
03:54 Diving into Divorce: Mortgage Rates and More
05:50 Divorce Stories: The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly
08:11 Impact of Divorce on Children
13:06 Overrated or Underrated: Legal and Everyday Topics
19:54 Interview with Jennifer Lee: Financial Planning Insights
23:02 Assessing Your Financial Resources
24:13 Understanding Discretionary Money
26:34 Navigating Financial Myths
27:33 Insights from 'Squeeze the Juice'
30:19 Lessons from Clients
32:03 Financial Advice and Divorce
38:01 Blended Families and Money
42:52 Fun Financial Quotes
46:15 Conclusion and Farewell

Kicking Off 2025 with the Boston Globe’s Meredith Goldstein

In the inaugural episode of Season 5 of the Schein On Podcast, Evan dives into the complexities of divorce, offering advice on healthy communication, understanding the impact of divorce, co-parenting, and working with legal teams. Evan introduces a new segment called 'Overrated, Underrated' and highlights communications with podcast veterans and newcomers. Special guest Meredith Goldstein, advice columnist for the Boston Globe, discusses relationships, the changing dynamics in the digital age, and her personal and professional insights on love and divorce. The episode sets a hopeful tone for 2025, urging listeners to view divorce as a transition rather than a failure, and emphasizes the importance of New Year's resolutions.
 
Topics
 
00:52 Season 5 Kickoff and New Year Optimism
03:09 The Evolution and Unique Approach of the Shine On Podcast
03:39 Introducing New Segments and Producer Dave
05:51 Top Five Divorce and Relationship Resolutions for 2025
08:23 Overrated or Underrated: Legal and Personal Topics
20:42 Featured Guest: Meredith Goldstein on Love Letters
28:48 The Romance and Reality of Marriage
29:39 Redefining Success in Relationships
32:23 The Business Side of Marriage
35:46 Navigating Divorce and New Beginnings
36:56 The Evolution of Journalism and Personal Growth
45:50 Exploring Modern Relationship Models
47:22 Fun Segment: They Said It
54:34 Wrapping Up and Future Insights
 

A FIIRM Approach to Divorce: Nikki Tucker

Episode 80 of the Schein On Podcast spotlights Nikki Tucker, a personal financial strategist and certified divorce financial analyst. Nikki shares her expertise on finance management pre- and post-divorce, emphasizing the importance of prenups, staying organized, and having open financial discussions in relationships. The show also delves into how public figures handle relationship scrutiny, the impact of social media on divorce settlements, and offers listener advice on navigating extended separations. Tune in for a blend of practical financial advice and engaging conversations on trending topics.More on Nikki at https://thefiirmapproach.com/Topics01:30 Halloween Highlights and Pop Culture03:08 Daylight Saving Time Debate04:29 Divorce and TikTok07:34 Halloween Candy Controversy10:41 Jessica Simpson's Marriage Rumors12:37 Ask Evan: Legal Separation vs. Divorce15:46 Interview with Nikki Tucker: Marriage and Money20:05 Prenup Discussions: Protecting Each Other22:07 Financial Transparency in Marriage22:46 Common Financial Mistakes During Divorce25:55 Rebuilding Financial Confidence Post-Divorce28:24 Rewarding Financial Milestones30:38 Nikki's Personal Philosophy and Advice35:05 Famous Quotes and Financial Wisdom40:28 Wrapping Up: Final Thoughts and Contact Info

’A Deeper Wellness’ Author Dr. Monica Vermani

A thought-provoking discussion on marriage, divorce, and mental health with Dr. Monica Vermani, a Toronto-based clinical psychologist and author of 'A Deeper Wellness.' Evan and Dr. Vermani delve into the complexities of emotional well-being during life transitions such as divorce. The episode features insightful conversation on topics ranging from the importance of tuning into one's authentic truth amidst external noise, to practical advice for those contemplating a move amidst a potential divorce. The episode also brings thoughtful commentary on the stigma surrounding mental health and the importance of resilience and self-compassion. Topics03:00 Celebrity Divorce: Jeremy Allen White06:52 Political Differences Leading to Divorce09:47 Ask Evan: Moving and Divorce12:17 Interview with Dr. Monica Vermani37:02 Embracing Uncertainty and Building Confidence37:45 Learning from Patients and Personal Growth38:55 The Importance of Self-Care for Therapists41:29 The Journey of Writing 'A Deeper Wellness'42:54 Creating Accessible Mental Health Resources49:10 The Role of Mentors and Personal Development52:07 The Impact of Vulnerability and Resilience59:22 Addressing Mental Health Stigmas and Narratives01:04:59 Navigating Divorce and Its Emotional Impact01:09:28 Conclusion and Resources for Mental Wellness

Divorce Financial Strategist Rhonda Noordyk

The guest is Rhonda Noordyk, a renowned divorce financial strategist and host of the podcast 'Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women.' Evan and Rhonda discuss the true meaning of disruption in divorce, emphasizing challenging the status quo for better outcomes. Rhonda shares her journey from the financial industry to specializing in helping women navigate the financial complexities of divorce. The episode covers crucial topics like the emotional and strategic aspects of divorce, the significance of understanding money stories from childhood, and practical advice on financial stability during the divorce process.Topics01:54 July 4th Weekend Plans03:20 The Role of a Divorce Lawyer06:11 Client-Lawyer Relationship Dynamics09:34 Gray Divorce Insights12:35 Ask Evan: Legal Grounds for Divorce14:33 Interview with Rhonda Noordyk24:26 Strategic Thinking in Divorce25:14 Misconceptions About Financial Stability27:19 Building Financial Confidence28:27 Handling Emotional Decisions32:57 Changes Needed in Divorce Industry35:19 The Women's Financial Wellness Center38:26 Future Vision and Impact42:09 Lessons Learned from Clients44:59 Fun Segment: They Said It50:54 Conclusion and Resources