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Evan dives into the complexities of divorce and addiction with featured guest Erin Khar, author of 'Strung Out'. The episode covers Erin's personal journey through a 15-year heroin addiction, her approach to recovery, and her advice on navigating relationships plagued by substance abuse. The conversation also touches on broader societal issues, such as the stigma around addiction and the flawed family court system. Listeners will find practical advice on handling the holiday season amidst divorce, the nuances of parental alienation claims, and thoughts on cultural phenomena like Taylor Swift. The episode concludes with an engaging segment featuring quotes from notable figures and a lively discussion on the underrated cranberry sauce.
 
Topics
00:15 Divorce and the Holiday Season
05:26 AI Relationships and Legal Challenges
12:04 Overrated or Underrated: Pop Culture Edition
23:14 Interview with Erin Khar: Addiction and Recovery
36:15 Addressing Skeptical Senators on Harm Reduction
36:47 The Economic Argument for Medicated Assisted Treatment
39:05 Personal Reflections on Writing a Memoir
40:40 The Dichotomy of Heroin Use
43:39 The Unwinnable War on Drugs
45:41 Advocating for Harm Reduction and Community Support
50:51 Balancing Advice and Personal Experience
52:51 Lessons from Beverly Hills 90210
54:40 Changing the Language Around Addiction
56:31 Parenting and Personal Accountability
01:14:05 The Importance of Sharing Your Story
01:19:36 Final Thoughts and Reflections

In Episode 93 of The Schein On Podcast, Evan talks to Dr. Tracey Dalgleish, a clinical psychologist and relationship expert, to discuss her latest book, 'You, Your Husband and His Mother.' The conversation delves into the intricacies of the relationship triangle between husbands, their wives, and mother-in-laws. Tracey provides actionable advice for couples aiming to strengthen their marriage while managing familial boundaries. The episode also touches on significant issues such as the current state of divorce law, the value of farmers' markets, and the communal joy of fantasy sports leagues. Additionally, listeners get treated to the engaging 'Overrated/Underrated' and 'They Said It' segments, making for a well-rounded and insightful episode.
 
Topics
00:33 Exploring Divorce Dynamics with Dr. Tracey Dalgleish
02:47 The Impact of Equal Custody Laws
08:42 Overrated or Underrated
25:08 Navigating Boundaries with Family
26:26 Practical Tools for Tough Moments
28:25 Personal Struggles and Professional Insights
30:12 The Power of Vulnerability in Therapy
34:01 Shifting Perspectives on Marriage and Divorce
35:27 Balancing Professional and Personal Life
38:53 Advice for Couples in Therapy
42:58 Co-Parenting After Divorce
44:42 Reflecting on the New Book
46:48 Fun Segment: They Said It
52:34 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Evan welcomes Dr. Rachel Glik, a relationship specialist and author of 'A Soulful Marriage.' Dr. Glik shares insights on maintaining healthy marriages, the misconceptions about love, and her personal experiences that inspired her book. The episode also includes fun segments like 'Overrated or Underrated' and 'They Said It,' where the hosts debate pumpkin spice lattes, reality dating shows, and the wisdom of quotes from famous personalities.
 
Topics
00:30 Fall Season and Football Talk
01:52 Birthday Wishes and Aging Secrets
02:33 Exciting Episode Preview
03:33 Diving into the Docket: Trophy Husband
04:03 Discussion on Income Disparity in Marriages
10:29 Overrated or Underrated: Rebound Relationships
12:51 Overrated or Underrated: Co-Parenting Apps
15:03 Overrated or Underrated: Board Games
16:33 Overrated or Underrated: Reality TV Dating Shows
20:15 Overrated or Underrated: Pumpkin Spice Everything
23:34 Introduction to Dr. Rachel Glik
24:10 Inspiration Behind 'A Soulful Marriage'
25:42 Challenges in Relationships
28:16 The Importance of Physical Intimacy
29:43 Misconceptions About Love
31:24 Early Marriage Counseling
39:21 The Role of Quantum Physics in Relationships
40:49 The Relevance of Marriage Today
44:15 Impact of 'A Soulful Marriage'
46:58 Fun Segment: They Said It
52:19 Conclusion and Where to Find the Book

Evan concludes the summer with a compelling episode featuring Bela Gandhi, founder of the Smart Dating Academy. They explore themes around modern dating, the impact of online dating, and the process of finding love post-divorce. Bela shares her journey from a career in business to becoming a renowned dating coach, offering invaluable insights on dating logistics, recognizing red flags, and debunking common myths. The episode also features discussions on the financial and emotional tolls of divorce and includes engaging segments like 'Overrated or Underrated' and 'They Said It.'
 
Topics
00:31 Reflecting on the End of Summer
01:31 Exploring Modern Romance with Bela Ghandi
02:33 Diving into Divorce Trends
08:02 Weaponized Incompetence in Relationships
11:12 Overrated or Underrated: Divorce and Beyond
21:55 Interview with Bela Ghandi Journey and Insights
30:18 Blending Love and Compatibility
30:48 Generational Perspectives on Love
31:37 Unexpected Career Paths
32:19 The Role of Chemistry in Relationships
32:48 Modern Dating Challenges
34:20 The Paradox of Choice in Online Dating
35:51 Dating During and After Divorce
39:44 Debunking Dating Myths
44:53 Psychological Insights into Dating
53:14 The Impact of Politics on Relationships
54:27 Final Thoughts and Advice

Evan interviews Kristin Kenney, CEO and founder of High Gear Advisors. Kristin shares her expertise in career negotiations, crisis resolution, and relationship management, focusing on helping high achievers who resist traditional coaching. The episode covers navigating the divorce process, with Evan and producer Dave discussing their personal experiences. Kristin offers insights on maintaining healthy relationships, setting boundaries, and the importance of neuroplasticity in personal development. The episode also touches on global divorce rates, the challenges of celebrity marriages, and the value of preparation and organization in the divorce process.
 
Topics
00:39 Guest Introduction: Kristin Kenney
01:47 Summer and Divorce: Personal Experiences
04:15 Celebrity Divorce Insights: David Justice and Halle Berry
08:11 Global Divorce Rates: A Deep Dive
11:15 Overrated or Underrated: Legal and Fun Topics
19:57 In-Depth with Kristin Kenney: Career Negotiations and Crisis Management
27:35 Building a New Roadmap for Success
28:15 The Art of Detachment in Negotiations
33:05 Patterns of Self-Sabotage
40:33 Defining True Success
42:28 Navigating Relationships with Different Worldviews
47:56 Quick Fixes for Relationship Improvement
51:28 They Said It: Insights from Authors
57:47 Conclusion and Contact Information

Evan returns after a brief hiatus to discuss the intricacies of the divorce process, featuring insights from Haleh Moddasser, CPA and author of 'Great Divorce Silver Linings.' They delve into the realities of late-life divorce, financial independence for women, and how to handle investments post-divorce. The episode also touches on the emotional aspects of divorce, personal growth, and the significance of financial planning. Additionally, Evan and producer Dave review TV shows that highlight divorce themes, reinforcing the episode's emphasis on handling life transitions with grace and insight.
 
Topics
00:30 Summer Vibes and July 4th Celebrations
02:57 Upcoming Episode Highlights
04:05 TV Show Review: Friends and Neighbors
12:10 TV Show Review: The Four Seasons
18:52 Overrated or Underrated: Legal and Lifestyle Topics
25:54 Interview with Haleh Moddasser: Women and Wealth
27:55 Challenges Women Face in Financial Advisory
28:42 Post-Divorce Financial Mindset
31:09 Creating a Financial Plan During Divorce
33:33 The Importance of Financial Planning
36:28 The Rise of Gray Divorce
39:52 Empowering Women Through Financial Independence
48:01 Generational Differences in Financial Attitudes
54:02 Final Thoughts and Reflections

Evan sits down with acclaimed historian Stephanie Coontz to discuss the evolving nature of marriage and family life. Coontz offers deep insights into the shifts in marital norms over the past few decades, highlighting how co-providing, gender roles, and societal expectations have changed. The episode also delves into 'silent divorces' and the complexities of rekindling relationships with ex-spouses. Additionally, Stephanie shares her experience of having her work cited in the Supreme Court's decision legalizing same-sex marriage and offers a sneak peek into her forthcoming book. This episode is rich with historical context, personal anecdotes, and practical advice for anyone interested in the future of marriage and relationships.
 
Topics
00:19 Welcome to the Shine On Podcast
00:55 Introducing Stephanie Coontz
03:12 Silent Divorce: A New Perspective
07:16 Reconnecting with an Ex: Is It Worth It?
11:21 Overrated or Underrated: Legal and Fun Topics
24:00 Discussing Modern Marriages
24:13 Stephanie's New Book
25:41 Redefining Marriage Norms
29:12 Historical Perspectives on Marriage
31:22 Future of Marriage and Relationships
32:40 Supreme Court Citation Experience
34:34 Advice for Younger Self
41:05 Impact of Divorce on Society
45:59 Fun Segment: They Said It
53:10 Conclusion and Farewell

In episode 87 of the Schein On Podcast, Evan dives into a profound discussion with Dr. Brad Reedy, renowned family therapist and co-founder of Evoke Therapy Programs. The episode explores the importance of understanding oneself, the transformative power of therapy, and how the hero's journey framework can reframe life's challenges, including divorce. Additionally, Evan and producer Dave discuss their personal takes on Opening Day, share insights on popular shows like 'White Lotus,' and debate the value of law firm swag. 
 
00:00 Introduction to Self-Discovery
00:08 Podcast Opening and Episode Overview
00:52 Guest Introduction: Dr. Brad Reedy
01:15 Casual Conversation: Baseball and Personal Anecdotes
05:18 Discussion on Divorce and Relationships
09:37 Parenting Post-Divorce
13:46 Overrated or Underrated Segment
18:18 White Lotus Discussion
21:42 Interview with Dr. Brad Reedy
23:20 Embracing Resistance in Therapy
24:46 Mentors and Their Impact
26:19 False Heroes and Misguided Pursuits
27:34 Modern Therapy's Shortcomings
29:42 Connecting Past Trauma to Present Issues
32:06 The True Nature of Healing
34:12 The Role of Forgiveness in Therapy
35:56 Divorce as a Catalyst for Growth
39:01 The Hero's Journey Framework
41:03 Unresolved Childhood Trauma in Breakups
44:24 The Importance of Self-Knowledge
48:07 Famous Quotes and Their Insights
58:57 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Evan leads a deep dive into the complexities of sex addiction and human sexuality with clinical psychologist and sex therapist Dr. David Ley. The conversation dispels myths, addresses misconceptions about sex addiction, and explores the nuances of intimacy, relationships, and pornography. The episode also features the lively 'Overrated or Underrated' segment and a discussion on AI's impact on child exploitation. Additionally, Dr. Ley provides professional insights on maintaining realistic expectations in relationships and discusses the potential benefits and ethical dilemmas associated with artificial intelligence in combating sexual offenses.
 
Topics
00:38 Diving into Divorce and Relationship Insights
02:00 March Madness and Bracket Strategies
04:46 Red Sox and Yankees Rivalry
06:40 The Docket: Sharing Truth After Divorce
14:07 Overrated or Underrated: Legal and Fun Topics
26:17 Interview with Dr. David Ley on Sex Addiction
30:05 The Harmful Effects of the 'Sex Addiction' Label
30:45 Sex Addiction in the Courtroom
31:31 Misconceptions About Sex Addiction Treatment
33:26 Moral Judgments and Sex Addiction
35:53 Pornography and Its Misunderstood Impact
37:07 The Role of Sex Education
39:06 Pornography in Relationships
45:09 The Myth of Porn-Induced Erectile Dysfunction
46:40 The Complexity of Human Sexuality
01:01:36 AI and Child Exploitation
01:10:17 Final Thoughts and Reflections

Featuring renowned life coach and relationship expert Laurie Gerber, the episode delves into handling breakups, dating post-divorce, and the importance of honesty and self-discovery. Highlights include Gerber's advice on the pitfalls of rushing into new relationships, the significance of personal growth, and practical tips for modern dating. The show also covers current events, such as celebrity divorces, and explores topics like the resurgence of vinyl records and the impact of one's career on relationships. Throughout the episode, engaging segments like 'Overrated or Underrated' and 'They Said It' add variety and depth to the conversation, making it a must-listen for anyone interested in love, relationships, and personal development.
 
Topics
00:14 Podcast Introduction and Season Overview
00:26 Discussing Divorce and Relationships
02:40 Celebrity Divorce News
06:24 TV Show Trailer Review
09:08 Impact of Careers on Relationships
13:26 Overrated or Underrated Segment
22:55 Interview with Laurie Gerber
39:01 Understanding Compatibility in Dating
39:56 Efficiently Ending a Relationship
41:27 The Six Key Compatibility Factors
45:37 Importance of Family and Political Views
50:12 Common Dating Mistakes After 50
59:46 The Role of Social Media in Dating
01:02:30 Quotes and Reflections on Love
01:10:42 Conclusion and Resources